I understand that many people would be turned off by those who try to better themselves in awkward ways, such as pretending to be someone they're not, or just being someone like them, but NOT them. But in all honesty, that's is how the person is, the person you think they are not. People change lol, calm your tits. (I had something better thought up for this, but I kind of just got tired of talking about it so..)